So  a week ago I was back in the club, watching the same guy do a suspension. The first one was amazing she was holding her ankles behind her back with her wrists tied to the ankles. The kicker being her tied also by her hair and him using that rope to swing her.

After he let her down I approached him. Huge step for me. (I don't talk to strangers but that is a completely different blog.)  He said yes he would love to tie me but there were already two people ahead of me. I thanked him and sat back and watched his next piece of art.

The first tie was amazing in a rough sex kind of way, the second was more passionate. He would take a moment to reassure her, a whisper in the ear a stroke of the hair.  As much as I was enjoying the rope I wanted to know what he was saying to her. 

From the outside looking in kink looks like it's about pain and abuse. But there is always some connection even in the arms of a stranger.

About a year ago I was at a club and they were doing rope suspensions. I was intrigued, and I was amazed, but the introvert in me kept me from participating. 

Over the next six months I though about going back but  hesitated.  I'm not one to go places by myself and I had two choices of who I wanted to take with me. One person would have stayed right by my side the entire time, just out of arms reach watching taking in the whole process. The other is the one I wanted to share the experience with doesn't have the attention span to share the entire experience. I'm sure he would come around and check on me but that isn't what I want. I need a partner that is as interested in it as I am. A rope buddy someone to learn with, someone to practice with.

I think that is the next step finding a rope buddy.

Where has the time gone?  All I can say is that I got distracted. I won't go into details but i will say there is a girl i knew a couple of years ago and it's time to get to know her again.

I'm trying to work up the nerve to go to a rope demo tomorrow night.
I say work up the nerve not because it's rope, but because the introvert in me doesn't venture out by myself very often and my husband is out of town.

Even if I don't make it out tomorrow I'm sure I'll get lots of rope time in over the next couple of weeks.

Now where did I leave that practice rope.